I have done a lot of talking to people, and reading people's opinions about, the upcoming election between Barak Obama and John McCain. I have heard a lot of explanations about who people plan to vote for and why. These include people in New Hampshire when I recently went canvassing there, people from the Midwest, people from other countries and people in and around my current hometown of Quincy, Mass.
I have heard a lot of people say they are voting based on character. I can respect that. I sometimes wished I had asked certain people what they define as character.
I like the definition that goes "Character is what you do when no one is looking."
So it is that I came across these two stories within a couple minutes of each other while surfing the web, twittering, and playing on Facebook.
The first one, by Rolling Stone, offers a pretty damning look at what makes up the character of Sen. John McCain. The excerpt below details a 1974 conversation between McCain and John Dramesi, an Air Force lieutenant colonel who like McCain was imprisoned and tortured in Vietnam.
On the grounds between the two brick colleges, the chitchat between the scion of four-star admirals (McCain) and the son of a prizefighter (Dramesi) turns to their academic travels; both colleges sponsor a trip abroad for young officers to network with military and political leaders in a distant corner of the globe.
"I'm going to the Middle East," Dramesi says. "Turkey, Kuwait, Lebanon, Iran."
"Why are you going to the Middle East?" McCain asks, dismissively.
"It's a place we're probably going to have some problems," Dramesi says.
"Why? Where are you going to, John?"
"Oh, I'm going to Rio."
"What the hell are you going to Rio for?"
McCain, a married father of three, shrugs.
"I got a better chance of getting laid."
In a story that originally appeared in the Norwegian magazine VG, American English-speaking Oslo blogger Leisha translated a story about Barak Obama that occurred 14 years after McCain's party plans.
A newlywed 31-year-old was waiting at the gate at the Miami Airport awaiting a reunion with her husband in Norway. She had no money, and carefully packed up all of the possessions she was going to take with her to start a new life.
She had no money, and just found out she would need 103 dollars to take the possessions with her.
In tears, she heard a voice from behind her, offering to pay the fee. That person (duh) was Barak Obama.
"He was my knight in shining armor," she said.
I believe these stories, say a lot about who we're choosing between in just about a month. While neither nugget has anything to do with specific policy, tax code, numbers of houses one owns or what their preacher might say in a sermon, I believe they do much to illustrate the guiding principles that each candidate will use when making difficult decisions that will affect both us and future generations of Americans.
I just deleted a few sentences that explained why, but in re-reading both of the excerpts above, it occurred to me that it's already pretty obvious.